'Weenie' Control

My Wife finally let it slip at work. It was sort of a funny situation but she got her point across:

First, my Wife was having a professional discussion with a male co-worker who suddenly pretended to misunderstand her relating to some term that sounded something like "weenie."

"I didn't think you had one of those," the co-worker quipped.

My Wife didn't miss a beat. "No, but I CONTROL one," she said.

To that, the co-worker erupted with laughter and went "wooooooo."

My Wife just turned, smiling, but with eyebrows raised and shook her head affirmatively as if to say "I damned sure do."

And that was that.

She did tell me that she bets he went home and stroked off thinking about it. I say that if he didn't, he should have.

Nightly Re-enforcement

Although a lot of the time we spend together is pretty "vanilla," my wife re-enforces our respective roles every time we fall asleep together. And I must say I do enjoy it.

First, she generally wants me to sleep naked, even if she is bundled up in warm, winter jammies. That's so that she can sleep holding her cock. It usually begins soon after we crawl into bed. She reaches over and finds the cock and says "mine" as she begins to relax. Then, laying beside me, she drifts off to sleep. But her hand continues to grip the penis. Soon, I fall asleep too.

I typically don't toss and turn much. She will roll part way over and often will switch the hand that's gripping her cock even as she's fast asleep. She doesn't like it if I try to pull away. Her hand will pull back insistently.

Often she will hold on to her cock for six or more hours per night. A very submissive feeling washes over me as I realize I am captivated. Her hand conveys her authority, which extends to all matters relating to her cock: How it is groomed, cleaned and how often she wishes to harvest the semen from it. The cock has become, for all intents and purposes, an extension of her pussy. And I love that.

Sometimes she will awaken and realize I've gotten a nocturnal erection. If she wants it, she will begin rhythmically squeezing it, then turn her body so her bushy slit lines up with it and then swallows it in to her. ...

Lavitra Assignment

Today my Wife took personal control of the "Penis vitamins" as we call them.

These are the Lavitra pills. Penis vitamins. Frankly, I NEVER "need" them to perform with my Wife. But they are very useful when we do the swing thing, when the Wife's cock converts to a toy for another woman.

The penis vitamins pretty much guarantee that the other woman is going to have a very good time. (And they also make my/Her "soft" cock look nice and large too -- so Lavitra is excellent if you are at a nude resort too! LOL)

We're planning on visiting our favorite swing friends on Saturday, so we needed a refill on the penis vitamins today. My Wife took control and, rather than running home to get the empty prescription bottle, she decided that she'd call in a request for a refill to the pharmacy. She knows the male pharmacist there.

Then she walked to the pickup area of the pharmacy, struck up a conversation with the pharmacist and picked up the Lavitra for me as I browsed the products nearby. I'm not shy about picking up meds like this -- and have many times in the past -- but she decided that she'd take control of it this time.

After we walked out of the store, she revealed that the price for 10 of these had risen to $149.00! I told her that the price had increased from slightly more than $100 to around $120 and now, suddenly, nearly 150 bucks for 10 Lavitra pills.

Later, we talked about it and she gave me a firm assignment; "Call every pharmacy in town and ask how much it costs."

"Every pharmacy?"

"Every pharmacy."

Luckily, I don't think I can get through to very many before our date begins with our swing friends on Saturday night.

Life is Good

The Wife and I are really kicking butt together this week, with a big household reorganization as well as serious bust-a-gut workouts at the gym.

She is now up to swimming 1 1/2 miles in 82 minutes! I'm doing good on the machines but not that good.

Anyway, her off weeks are really what it's all about. We're both off, so it's like a vacation at home.

This week we are packing up older kids' rooms and repurposing parts of our house to recognize the fact that, more and more, this place is gonna be about JUST me and my Wife. One room that once served as a home office will be converted into a party room and workout center.

But the best news is that we have decided to go on a cruise for our 25th wedding anniversary late this year. And, at her suggestion, it will be an adult cruise. "I want to go topless -- and probably bottomless," she said.

So that's going to be on my happy list of things to do soon: Figure out a Caribbean cruise on some kind of adult/nude tour. Or maybe we can just go to Desire or Hedo. YES!

Working Out Hard!

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Well, tiz the season for working out. We're seeing a huge influx of people at the gym -- including more visits by us, too.

My Wife is up to swimming a mile and a quarter -- freestyle -- every day. Meanwhile, I'm walking more than three miles at fast pace and some running, on an incline, every day. Plus I'm doing alternating upper body and lower body workouts. We've been going at it daily most of the time since before Thanksgiving. And, just like last year, we're seeing some results.

It's just sad we got lazy and stopped working out over the summer and early fall.

Our HUGE motivation is that we want to return to the nude/swing resort that we discovered, and went back four times to last year -- The Grove in northern Georgia. If you've ever wanted to go to a place that's kind of like Hedo only at a much more affordable price, this is it! The Mountain Creek "Pleasure" Grove Resort.

Currently the Grove website is going through a transition and it reflects the place as it is in mid-winter. The resort is open 365 days a year but we'll stick to going in the summer.

We never really thought we'd get in to the nude resort thing -- other than Hedo -- before we got to this place. There are actually close to a dozen of these homegrown Hedos across the country. And by that I mean nude resorts that specifically cater to swingers. In the eastern U.S., there are resorts that seem similar to the Grove in Indiana near Chicago and two others in lower Michigan. We see on the Net that there are also really nice ones in Texas and California.

But I'll tell ya. We've just about NEVER had such a good time in our lives -- ever -- as when we went to the Grove.

And for a party-ass widely traveling couple like us, that says a lot. We have been to Europe, to Jamaica a couple of times and did a Caribbean cruise -- but this is right up with all of 'em. And it's the only time we've ever just partied naked and completely wild. Can you imagine partying naked in the middle of probably 100 other naked swinging people at a pool/clubhouse on a warm and sunny summer day?

I have a lot of pretty amazing but TRUE stuff that the Wife and I have done during the past few years that I'll write about in the near future.

A lot of this blog is going to have to do with having wild times as swingers as much as it's going to be about Female Led Relationships. But we are kinky. She's definitely in charge! Check back. I have so many stories and things to say. I hope you'll continue to find them entertaining.

Taking on financial chores

This is sort of a double role reversal story.

Long ago in our marriage, I ran the finances. I kept the books on paper, tracked spending and really did a pretty good job.

Then came the period when she was the homemaker, caring for small children and taking care of the house.

It was then that she began handling the finances, sort of as a help mate who kept track of paying the bills.

Then she got back to work, hitched on to a great gig and has seen her earnings skyrocket. I've since left a career type job, built and sold a company and now I'm a househusband.

Now all the loans and financial things are in HER name. Even most of the credit card offers that come in the mail are addressed only to her.

But she's tired of worrying about paying the bills -- even if most of it is now automatic. She's tired of worrying about it. And she told me the other night that she wants to delegate the day-to-day financial work to me. The point is that she isn't giving up any power or authority -- only the CHORE of paying the bills and developing small strategies for paying things off, etc.

A day in the life ...

Well, I'm back after a slightly frustrating weekend and now, this week, the Wife is off to work.

This househusband thing -- it's really a true job and often about making sure things don't fall through the cracks in your family life, the way they might if you both are working your asses off just trying to make ends meet.

For example, today I accompanied my 19-year-old daughter to the local community college enrollment torture ... just to make sure she didn't chicken out. The Wife was sleeping. The girl definitely would have chickened out if I hadn't been there. She just has no patience for standing in lines, dealing with bureaucracy, etc. Sounds a lot like her parents ... except that SHE has no coping skills.

Otherwise, I also dealt with having new audio rewiring in our old small RV camper, had a total 3 miles plus upper body workout, washed the dishes after dinner, dismantled and boxed Christmas decor, cleaned catalytic converter on wood stove and then started a wood-stove fire.

Got warm!

But if we'd both have been working, who would have gotten this done?

Boyfriend Frustrations ...

Happy New Year!

We are in the middle of what still promises to be a hot weekend, but one that's off to a weird start.

We had a scheduled date tonight with a guy who actually promised to be the hoped-for and long-awaited "boyfriend." He still could turn out to be the boyfriend but his odds went way WAY down tonight, I'm afraid, as they should.

This guy is the husband of a couple who were our best swing partners back about three years ago. Well, "issues" have intruded into their relationship and she has, by his account, closed down as a sexual person. No more sex at home. And, he recently wrote, can we please help. *Smile*

My Wife does not like to deal with married men who are cheating on their wives, though. But she knows him. And she knows what she has been wanting lately -- a hot MFM with an intelligent, multi-dimensional (bi) man. Which pretty much describes our friend.

So he approached us. And my Wife got right in the middle of it and responded -- realizing the potential here -- and we wanted to set up a social encounter -- just to get us all reacquainted. And she thought a visit to a comedy club would be great fun.


Butt no.

He wrote an e-mail only a couple of hours before show time tonight and said, well, he'd not gotten his nap or some bullshit -- and he really didn't like comedy clubs anyway. We'd already bought the ticket for him but luckily we were able to have it applied to our drink tab.

My Wife had a massively fun time anyway, giggling throughout the entire series of performances. She was in a fantastic mood when we left and we both agreed that there would have been no doubt -- if our friend had joined us and had gone to the comedy club -- that we would have then adjourned to a motel room and fucked the hell out of him.

But we also defined what we're looking for -- someone who WOULD go to a comedy club with us. So if you aren't willing to go to a place my wife WANTS TO GO for some vanilla fun beforehand, then there's little chance of "doing her."

We are really lusting for some "strange" for my Wife.

We are going to our local swing club Saturday night. We'll see if anything happens there ...*Smile*