Alternative Energy

OK. This is going to be a non-sexual, "think about it' type post.

In December, thanks in most part to my Wife's expert leadership on household energy issues, our entire monthly energy bill was $103. (!!!)

Unfortunately, in January, when some even more serious wintertime weather hit, our electric bill jumped to $159 -- but we also picked our middle daughter back up at home. And we have a wonderful tankless water heater. Mix that with two teenage daughters and you can see why we might have jumped back up.

But this compares to what?

Our oldest daughter's energy bill at an apartment in an old carved-up house was over $200 each month.

The difference is that we have invested a LOT into energy conservation stuff around here. I have completely re-insulated our attic over the past year or so with R30 insulation. We also have had a vinyl siding job done with an insulation layer to it. As a result, this house will hold heat even when there is no heat available.

My Wife is very serious about alternative energy and energy conservation. She calls herself a "gagety girl." That's for sure. So while we highlight some of the kinkier aspects to our relationship, we'd also like to highlight ways to SAVE energy and the planet. You just might find some energy tips here too!

She loved it!

This is my Valentines gift to my Wife -- many orgasms!

She opened the box while were still in bed this morning. Inside: A plug-in electric vibrator wand! (The Hitachi Magic Wand)

She took it out of the box, put it to her pussy and proceeded to have an orgasm. Next, she commanded her cock to be inside her. Then she orgasmed a couple of times again. Then after I got taxed out, she took the Magic Wand into her hand again. And after she came again, I put her cock back inside her and she came again ...

This evening we had Italian take-out from a big Italian restaurant, and had a nice romantic dinner.

Then we went to a huge urban meet and greet swing party. We decided not to attend any of the after-parties.

I'm not sure either of us could have taken any more!

Still Cutting Wood

This too will pass.

My Wife and I have made a priority to pick up the bounty of free firewood that is everywhere in our city. This means someone (me) must complete the processing with a chainsaw.

However, this really is a profitable thing. Our December energy bill was a scant $103 thanks to our wood-burning stove.

Anyway ... I have been thinking of how to proceed with this blog. Here are some ideas:

• Some recent play we've done, including my Wife's Valentine's Day present.
  
• My opinion about orgasm control/denial and ... seasonal affective submissiveness.
  
• Posts about my Wife's many interests in gadgets -- including alternative energy, etc.
  
• Opinions about what is really going on in the United States. ... This may seem off-topic but this country is under a bigger challenge than 9-11 and one party is rising to it. The other party is not. We don't care if you don't think political stuff belongs in the midst of a FLR blog. We do.
  This might include our opinions about tobacco and smoking, including how this figures into the swing lifestyle.
  
• Plans and progress on our hopes to have some wild times in the coming months, including a swing cruise and visits to some nude/swing resorts this summer.

So I've got lots to write about. You'll be getting to know us both much better in the months ahead.

Iced Down

Hello. We are officially back.

It has been a long week. We were hit by snow, ice and more snow. The ice was the worst as it destroyed one tree and damaged two others. We were without power for 12 hours but -- HA -- we had a generator so we were toasty and even had Internet access!

My Wife and I both worked on the backyard cleanup. The ice buildup on the trees was incredible, and made even cleaning up the mess very difficult because of the tremendous weight.

I handled the chain saw. She snipped smaller limbs and, her favorite, bundled the twigs. We've skipped our daily trips to the gym because we were getting such a great workout cleaning up from the storm. My biceps have really gotten pumped up.

I took several photos of my Wife in the winter nightmare-land looking like a snow bunny. I'd love to share them here but I CAN'T. LOL. So I'll post a small view of our back yard instead.

'Weenie' Control

My Wife finally let it slip at work. It was sort of a funny situation but she got her point across:

First, my Wife was having a professional discussion with a male co-worker who suddenly pretended to misunderstand her relating to some term that sounded something like "weenie."

"I didn't think you had one of those," the co-worker quipped.

My Wife didn't miss a beat. "No, but I CONTROL one," she said.

To that, the co-worker erupted with laughter and went "wooooooo."

My Wife just turned, smiling, but with eyebrows raised and shook her head affirmatively as if to say "I damned sure do."

And that was that.

She did tell me that she bets he went home and stroked off thinking about it. I say that if he didn't, he should have.

Nightly Re-enforcement

Although a lot of the time we spend together is pretty "vanilla," my wife re-enforces our respective roles every time we fall asleep together. And I must say I do enjoy it.

First, she generally wants me to sleep naked, even if she is bundled up in warm, winter jammies. That's so that she can sleep holding her cock. It usually begins soon after we crawl into bed. She reaches over and finds the cock and says "mine" as she begins to relax. Then, laying beside me, she drifts off to sleep. But her hand continues to grip the penis. Soon, I fall asleep too.

I typically don't toss and turn much. She will roll part way over and often will switch the hand that's gripping her cock even as she's fast asleep. She doesn't like it if I try to pull away. Her hand will pull back insistently.

Often she will hold on to her cock for six or more hours per night. A very submissive feeling washes over me as I realize I am captivated. Her hand conveys her authority, which extends to all matters relating to her cock: How it is groomed, cleaned and how often she wishes to harvest the semen from it. The cock has become, for all intents and purposes, an extension of her pussy. And I love that.

Sometimes she will awaken and realize I've gotten a nocturnal erection. If she wants it, she will begin rhythmically squeezing it, then turn her body so her bushy slit lines up with it and then swallows it in to her. ...

Lavitra Assignment

Today my Wife took personal control of the "Penis vitamins" as we call them.

These are the Lavitra pills. Penis vitamins. Frankly, I NEVER "need" them to perform with my Wife. But they are very useful when we do the swing thing, when the Wife's cock converts to a toy for another woman.

The penis vitamins pretty much guarantee that the other woman is going to have a very good time. (And they also make my/Her "soft" cock look nice and large too -- so Lavitra is excellent if you are at a nude resort too! LOL)

We're planning on visiting our favorite swing friends on Saturday, so we needed a refill on the penis vitamins today. My Wife took control and, rather than running home to get the empty prescription bottle, she decided that she'd call in a request for a refill to the pharmacy. She knows the male pharmacist there.

Then she walked to the pickup area of the pharmacy, struck up a conversation with the pharmacist and picked up the Lavitra for me as I browsed the products nearby. I'm not shy about picking up meds like this -- and have many times in the past -- but she decided that she'd take control of it this time.

After we walked out of the store, she revealed that the price for 10 of these had risen to $149.00! I told her that the price had increased from slightly more than $100 to around $120 and now, suddenly, nearly 150 bucks for 10 Lavitra pills.

Later, we talked about it and she gave me a firm assignment; "Call every pharmacy in town and ask how much it costs."

"Every pharmacy?"

"Every pharmacy."

Luckily, I don't think I can get through to very many before our date begins with our swing friends on Saturday night.