We are in the middle of what still promises to be a hot weekend, but one that's off to a weird start.
We had a scheduled date tonight with a guy who actually promised to be the hoped-for and long-awaited "boyfriend." He still could turn out to be the boyfriend but his odds went way WAY down tonight, I'm afraid, as they should.
This guy is the husband of a couple who were our best swing partners back about three years ago. Well, "issues" have intruded into their relationship and she has, by his account, closed down as a sexual person. No more sex at home. And, he recently wrote, can we please help. *Smile*
My Wife does not like to deal with married men who are cheating on their wives, though. But she knows him. And she knows what she has been wanting lately -- a hot MFM with an intelligent, multi-dimensional (bi) man. Which pretty much describes our friend.
So he approached us. And my Wife got right in the middle of it and responded -- realizing the potential here -- and we wanted to set up a social encounter -- just to get us all reacquainted. And she thought a visit to a comedy club would be great fun.
Butt no.
He wrote an e-mail only a couple of hours before show time tonight and said, well, he'd not gotten his nap or some bullshit -- and he really didn't like comedy clubs anyway. We'd already bought the ticket for him but luckily we were able to have it applied to our drink tab.
My Wife had a massively fun time anyway, giggling throughout the entire series of performances. She was in a fantastic mood when we left and we both agreed that there would have been no doubt -- if our friend had joined us and had gone to the comedy club -- that we would have then adjourned to a motel room and fucked the hell out of him.
But we also defined what we're looking for -- someone who WOULD go to a comedy club with us. So if you aren't willing to go to a place my wife WANTS TO GO for some vanilla fun beforehand, then there's little chance of "doing her."
We are really lusting for some "strange" for my Wife.
We are going to our local swing club Saturday night. We'll see if anything happens there ...*Smile*
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